Monday, July 25, 2016

What Makes You Happy?


Different people will undoubtedly give varied opinions as far as the above question is concerned. Many will say that their well-paying jobs give them happiness. Other will cite meaningful and fulfilling life as source of their true happiness.

Amazingly, there some who will have very specific response to the above query. In fact, with the recent technological advances, there are some happiness tracking apps. 
All in all, with personal opinions on what makes one happy notwithstanding, there are some factors known to bring happiness to many worldwide. 
For instance; Meaningful work.
People who have jobs that make them feel a sense purpose and fulfilled coupled with good salaries often draw their happiness from such kind of work.

Well, having a circle of trusted friends and the warmth of belonging to a family will surely make you happy.
Laughter is a common characteristic of happiness but it’s not always the case. The two may be confused. But happiness is not just the outward smile and laughter it goes beyond that, it is something deeper that connects closely with our inner feelings. So, do you know when you are happy or know what makes you happy?
Personally, having the peace of mind and body health keeps me happy, that is of course plus other activities with friends and family. A stress free life is what makes most of us happy. You can always find out what makes you happy by doing a small analysis on yourself. For instance
  • Finding out and identifying exactly what has made you happy at that moment when you have that feeling of happiness
  • Identifying things that annoy and make you unhappy still during that time when you are annoyed or unhappy 
  • Identifying the things that you love doing because there a is a great connection between happiness and the things we love doing or simply love
  • Make a connection with your feelings through meditation , it’s healthy and helpful too
  • Reach out to a therapist or psychologist when you find it difficult, they can help you through it.
We may relate our happiness to materialistic acquisitions. This is when we let material stuff such as money, new car among other things, determine our happiness. However, material things rarely determine long term happiness. I’m sure you don’t want something that comes and fades away so quickly do you? 

 These few and simple steps can significantly help you realize what makes you happy. But remember, the process of discovering what makes us happy is a journey and you need not to rush over it .Take your time.

Major Key Alert:
If things have to happen for you to be happy. You are not happy